Discover the ADHD Parenting Solution

Create harmony in the home with simple shifts that have big impact.

Parenting ADHD kids can feel like a constant struggle. Every day feels like deja vu with the same old battles. You’re probably exhausted, overwhelmed, and barely have the energy to get ahead. Everything you have tried seems like a lot of effort with little to show for it. There's a reason for that.

Most advice teaches you to fight against the ADHD, that it is a problem to fix. When you learn to work with the ADHD, you can stop wasting energy on things that don't work, and start creating harmony, ease and flow for your whole family.

Yes please!!

LET ME GUESS ...

Life right now feels chaotic. Basic tasks feel like a battle - every single day. So much time and energy are spent trying to get your child to co-operate. They don't listen, they resist instructions. They have big, unpreditable emotions. It's exhausting!

 

 

You can't go on like this. 

The negative impacts are becoming impossible to ignore. Stress and fatigue are draining you, compromising your health and emotional wellbeing. With little energy for self-care, it’s harder to support others, and you miss feeling like yourself. Relationships are strained, and the constant chaos at home is taking its toll on everyone in the family. If things continue this way, the situation will only get worse.

 

 

But it doesn't have to be that way.

This program will transform the way you parent your ADHD child. You'll gain the tools to make parenting feel natural, simple, and manageable — without fighting against the challenges. You’ll get your energy back, reduce stress, and create lasting change for yourself and your family.

sign me up!

Which of these sound like you?

  • You feel stuck in a never-ending cycle of daily struggles. It's the same battles every day, with little to no progress.

  • Despite your efforts, nothing ever seems to get easier. Every "solution" feels like a lot of effort with little to show for it. You need a solution that actually works.
  • You’re overwhelmed and burnt out from trying to manage everything. Your health and wellbeing are suffering.
  • Your relationship with your child feels strained, and you worry about the long-term effects of the constant tension between you.

  • You love your kids but feel like you’re stuck in power struggles over every little thing. You long for a way to make parenting smoother and more enjoyable for everyone.

  • You’ve are exhausted from constantly reacting to the challenges of ADHD. You want to reconnect with the joy of parenting and experience the positives of being a parent.

  • You want to enjoy your kids' childhood, instead of wishing it away. You want it to be easier, but that doesn't mean you need to wait for it to be over. You want to make happy memories.

  • You are SO TIRED of fighting against the ADHD, of trying to solve problems, "put out fires", and fix issues. You are tired of the constant focus on the negative, and what is going wrong.

  • Whatever your stance on medication, you know that "pills don't teach skills". You want a sustainable approach that creates lasting change and sets your child and family up for ongoing success.

  • You’re overwhelmed by the amount of free information, conflicting advice, and endless tips that never seem to make a real difference. You’re ready for a focused, comprehensive program that will transform your life.

  • You want your ADHD child to feel understood, supported, and empowered. You want your child to have good self-esteem, and live a fulfilling life, now and in the future.

  • You long for a peaceful, harmonious household and a family with a strong, loving bond—today and in the future. You want to enjoy meaningful moments together, free from the constant stress.

  • You've tried books, podcasts, webinars, programs, and courses... but nothing has truly addressed the fundamentals, provided all the necessary information, or offered the complete solution you're searching for.... Everything you've tried so far seems to be missing something.
I need the solution!

If nothing changes...

Things will only get worse. Tension and stress will build up, affecting your health and emotional wellbeing. Your relationships will continue to be strained. Your family dynamic will continue to deteriorate. Once your child reaches teen years, there will be even more chaos and unpredictability. If your child doesn't learn emotional regulation and life skills now, when will they?

Like most ADHD kids, your child will face thousands of negative messages, take constant hits to their self-esteem, and be affected for the rest of their life. Any gifts, talents or potential will be weighed down by self-doubt.

You’ll wish you’d acted sooner, and regret not finding an approach that helped set your child up for a happy future.


You know the saying: "If you do what's you've always done, you'll get what you've alway gotten"? It means that nothing will change if you don't change something. So, here's your opportunity to do something radically different.

 
Give me the gamechanger!
Introducing...


the

Parenting ADHD SOLUTION

 
Transform the way you parent your adhd child.

In this bingeable, on-demand program, you'll discover a new approach that replaces exhausting methods with simple, effective shifts. Explore the 5 key areas that will empower you to create ease, connection, and positive change in your family.

I want in.

Over 15 years experience delivered to you in 5 self-paced modules.


I'm Marli Darling

ADHD EXPERT, MINDSET COACH, MOTHER

  • 15 years experience in psychology, neuroscience, and habit formation and neurodiversity.

  • Life-long experience with ADHD and ASD

  • 10yrs experience with ADHD, ASD kids

  • Focus on Empowerment and Positivity

  • Proven approach tailored for ADHD

  • Uplifting Community: fostering a supportive environment for neurodiverse humans and their allies

I've been where you are.

Parenting ADHD kids is not what I expected from motherhood. Neurodiverse kids think, feel, act and respond differently - they have a whole different operating system and way of being. Mainstream parenting just doesn't work for them. But no one told me that....

For years, I tried to make it work. It was a daily battle to do basic tasks. The same battles, every day. I tried all the standard techniques - encouragement, making it a fun game, using a reward chart, even apps. But nothing was effective! Or it would help for a short time (ND brains love novelty!) but suddenly fail. It wasn't enough, and nothing was sustainable.

My kids didn't respond to fun incentives, or negative consequences, or an authorative tone. They simply did not do what I needed them to do! If they didn't want* to, it wasn't happening. And yet, it was my job to make sure they look after themselves. This had me feeling lost as a parent. I was doing everything I could on my side of things...but my kids weren't responding to it. (*Note: I use the term want loosley here - the program covers the underlying mechanisms and what is actually happening in these situations.)

Life was chaotic. I was wasting SO much time on basic tasks, struggling to get my kids out the door - or if we opted to stay home, they would be bouncing off the walls. They needed engagement, but JUST the right amount of it, otherwise it would be overwhelming. 

They had big emotions and meltdowns. Which was unpleasant for them, too! Sometimes meltdowns would happen in public, which would be embarassing. My kids can also be very direct and sound demanding, which people sometimes interpretted as rude.

By the time they were finally asleep, my tank was completely empty. The days felt so long, and were practically, emotionally, and often physically exhausting. I had no time or energy left for myself. And I had to do it all over again the next day!

I felt overwhelmed on the daily. I wondered if I just needed to accept my fate. Would it always be this much effort and struggle? But I'm an optimistic person, with a strong interest in psychology and a passion for personal development. I knew there must be something, some key that would transform things for us.

Two things changed everything:

1. I became a scientist.
Every day, I observed, reflected, experimented. Parenting my kids was both a science and an art, and I was trying different ratios and potions, refining the process for years to work it out.

Eventually I had a pretty good handle on things... We could avoid the big meltdowns, follow a rough daily routine. But everything took a long time, and was convoluted. We had to do things a certain way. And my kids still didn't co-operate easily. It was like they could turn into a brick wall - they just would not move or do the thing. At times, we could get into this snowball, where anything I did actually made it worse and take longer to get things done.

2. I found the keys to ADHD

I had all the strategies, observations, and an understanding of behavioural psychology... but I was missing one cog in the machine. One thing that would bring it all together. When I found the missing piece, everything clicked into place. I learned the key principles about the neuroscience of ADHD, which meant that suddenly, I knew why certain things worked and others didn't. With an awareness of the underlying functions, I could confirm or tweak all my theories, and refine and perfect my method. 

These keys unlocked everything for us.
Now, our days run smoothly. We co-operate together and operate as a cohesive family unit. I know how to interact with my kids, and how to work their operating systems. My kids rarely have meltdowns, and if they do, they are brief. They can regulate their emotions, and know how to communicate effectively to meet their needs. And I know exactly how to react to any situation. I am confident as a parent. I've got this.

 Our life flows. We have a great time together. Our relationships are strong and we make memories together. I enjoy being a parent. I have my energy back, have a healthy range of emotions, and feel like myself again. I no longer feel exhausted or guilty at the end of each day.

Instead, I feel content, and I am excited to do it all again the next day.
We are no longer managing the ADHD - we are thriving with it.

I want the key!
 Imagine if...
  • Your days run smoothly, with no more chaos or endless battles to get out the door, transition between activities, leave places, or wind down for bed.
  • Your kids experience meltdowns less often, and you know exactly how to defuse them quickly and calmly, leaving you and your child feeling connected and understood.
  • Your kids complete tasks easily, and rather than resisting basic tasks like brushing teeth, putting on shoes, they actually respond well, and co-operate with requests.
  • You feel calm and confident in every parenting challenge, knowing exactly how to respond and what to do to get the outcome you desire.
  • Your home becomes a peaceful, supportive environment, where your kids thrived and your family worked as a team.
  • Your relationship with your kids deepens as you  co-operate better, spend less time trying to get things done, experience better moods, and connect in positive ways.
  • You feel less overwhelmed and exhausted, you have more energy, better healh and improved emotional wellbeing. You end the day feeling accomplished and content instead of drained.
  • Your household is a place of harmony, with a strong family unit that co-operates together, enjoys each others company, and has a deep connection that last for years to come.
  • You stop feeling like you are just "getting through the day" and instead find yourself enjoying motherhood and making lasting memories.
  • You feel positive about neurodiversity, embracing your kids’ unique strengths and traits. You are relieved to be protecting and fostering your child's confidence and self esteem. 
  • You are optimistic about the future, knowing that everyone's needs are met, life is on track, and the whole family is healthy, happy and thriving.
I want all that!

Let's Talk Modules

 

MODULE 1: Embrace Your Child's Unique ADHD Wiring
Dicover the underlying science and structure of your child's brain

With a true understanding of your child's ADHD brain, you are empowered to parent with their natural inclinations, not against them. This enables you to make informed decisions, embrace their unique strengths, and implement strategies that truly work. Let go of the frustration that comes from trying to force them into a neurotypical mold (which many ND strategies actually do without realising). Instead, create a nurturing environment that allows your child to embrace their ADHD traits and thrive as their authentic self, and and in the future.

MODULE 2: Getting Things Done by Working with ADHD
Unlock the Keys of Expectation, Co-operation and Regulation

Discover some simple mistakes you are making that actually shut down your child's action system and create a bigger battle. Once you make this shift, you remove a huge roadblock and stop feeling like you are pushing a boulder up an impossible hill.
Next, learn the one core thing required to spark co-operation in your child, and easy ways to support regulation. This module also offers specific shifts and strategies for sleep, chores, procrastination, hyperfocus, prioritising, and ways to consistently get things done and make routines and life much easier.

MODULE 3: Caring for Sibling Connections
Creating a supportive environment where siblings thrive together

Explore how to encourage healthy sibling relationships, even when ADHD presents challenges. Avoid common parenting mistakes that lead to lasting resentment, create rifts in relationships, and impact self-esteem in either sibling. Ensure each child feels validated by avoiding assumptions, and handling disagreements strategically - even when you don't have all the facts on what happened. Teach valuable emotional skills, encourage clear communication, and learn conflict resolution. While ADHD can delay emotional development, consitent parenting helps your children learn these essential skills, and develop stronger sibling bonds.

 

MODULE 4: Cultivate a Positive Relationship with Your ADHD Child
Repair, Reconnect, and Nurture a Lasting Parent-Child Bond

Learn about the impacts of different parenting styles and assess where you fit into the mix, identifying areas for positive change. Discover effective strategies for restoring a relationship that may be strained due to ADHD challenges and how to protect it moving forward. Use a simple hack to quickly repair after an arguement, rather than spiralling into guilt or increasing the sense of distance between you and your child. Plus, dive into ways to increase positive interactions with your child, and strengthen your emotional connection now and for years to come.

MODULE 5: Empowering You as a Parent
Deepen the parenting experience by looking to your needs

This module considers aspects that are related to you as the parent, that affect your parenting experience. Topics covered include: reducing stress, identifying triggers, increasing emotional regulation, overcoming patterns, feeling in control, and mindful parenting. There is also a section on How to Play When you Find Play Boring.

This section also explores the unique challenges of parenting ND kids if you are ND yourself, and helpful strategies to minimise any struggles and maximise wellbeing.

I want in!
As a bonus, get free access to:

 

Elvaria Kids Meditations ($97 value)
50+ bedtime stories and meditations to help children with emotional regulation, sleep, positivity, kindness, social skills, self-esteem, confidence, and embracing their strengths.

Yes please!

FAQ

I'm not here to give you another solution that doesn't work, more information that overloads you, or a program that you never finish.

Everything I teach is tried and tested. I have over 15 years experience and knowledge, and I only teach what works, and has a proper basis in psychology and neuroscience.

"I HAVE ADHD AND STRUGGLE TO COMPLETE COURSES LIKE THIS."
I understand ADHD, and the challenges it poses to learning, consistency, and completing a course such as this. I am here to support you, cheer you on, and deliver the course in a way that suits the ADHD brain. You don't need to progress at a particular pace, and you can't fail. There is no hard work in this program. Simply consume the content, and apply it to your life however it suits you.

"I'M TOO BUSY AND OVERWHELMED TO HAVE MORE WORK TO DO."
The program centres on two fundamental principles:
a) Knowledge is power, and true insight naturally creates change in your life. You will create change in your life just by listening to the program.
b) All effort must be both necesary and easy. Why spend a LOT of effort on things that barely work? This program focuses on simple shifts that have big impact.

"I DON'T HAVE TIME OR MENTAL ENERGY TO PUT ASIDE FOR THIS."
Consume the course how it suits you. All content is on-demand, pre-recorded, rewatchable, with full speed controls. Each video is short, and all your progress is saved. You can watch, just listen, and even multi-task as you consume the course. I'm not one of those teachers who say "create a quiet space where you can focus fully on this." Just find a moment when your ears are free and you have enough motivation to click play on one of the videos.

"I CAN LEARN IT ALL THROUGH FREE CONTENT, WHAT'S DIFFERENT ABOUT THIS PROGRAM?"
You've consumed videos, podcasts, books...but if you are reading this, you are searching for something more. You need something comprehensive, that offers deep, genuine understanding and insight, and that takes you step-by-step through the transformation to create true, lasting change in your life.

"I CAN PROBABLY FIGURE IT OUT MYSELF, WHY SHOULD I TAKE A COURSE?"
But it takes so much mental and emotional effort to try and try again. Skip the years of trial and error, the struggle and heartache. It's so disappointing to spend another day with the same old problems. Hack into my 15 years experience and let me give you the shortcut to transformation.

"I'VE TRIED IT ALL BEFORE, "
I'm not just another up-and-coming ADHD coach, who got her diagnosis, did some hyperfocused learning and now poses herself as an expert. I have over 15 YEARS experience. This program goes beyond surface-level strategies. It is grounded in the foundational principles of psychology, neuroscience, and habit formation, addressing the core functions that drive real, lasting change.

"I'M HESITANT TO SPEND THE MONEY."
That's fine, but consider what that will cost you. You can carry on as you are, try to find gold amongst free content, and spend years stressed and floundering. You could spend money on books you never read, short courses that don't work, and quick-fixes that target ADHD through social media ads. OR, you can see this as an investment in the wellbeing and happiness of yourself and your family. Save yourself the time, effort, and money, and invest in a real solution, now.

"WHAT IF I TAKE THIS PROGRAM AND IT CHANGES MY LIFE?"
"What if it doesn't work out?"
"Oh, my dear, but what if it does?"

Take a chance on yourself. Give it one last shot. I have been where you are, Darling. I have so much empathy for you, and so much faith. Let me be your guide, and let's transform your life.

I can do this!

TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE, TODAY

JOIN The Parenting ADHD Solution.

This program is designed to offer everything you need to know about your ADHD child, why nothing has worked so far, and how to work with their unique brain, to create flow in your daily life and harmony in your household. 

Create a life that runs smoothly on the daily, fosters positive relationships in your family, restores your energy and emotional wellbeing, and sets your child up for a fulfilling future.

That's what's on offer - at the click of a button. You can have all that right NOW. Literally now - all the content is on demand, and you can access it right away, and consume at your own pace.

Your investment into the program is just $997.

*Price in AUD!
Australian friends: no conversion needed!
Overseas friends, AUD equals less than USD!

I'm ready!

WHAT ABOUT A GUARANTEE?

I am so confident in this program that I do not offer a refund guarantee.

If you take the program and experience absolutely no positive shift, we will work together to put you back on the path to transformation. My guarantee is that I am commited to evolving the program to make sure it is as effective as promised.

When you invest in yourself, commit to the process, and remain open to receiving change, the results will follow.

 
Transformation starts with a decision.
And that decision is now.
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